AYNAIJANG CHRONICLE: IT'S NOT WORKING, CAN'T YOU SEE?
To all the single men and ladies
Love is very beautiful. In fact, it's an experience that is indescribable by words. The feeling
of love brings an unmatchable happiness to the heart. Love is indeed beautiful, believe me.
However, not all love or amorous relationships are working. Many are just sheer folly from either a lover or both lovers, a waste of time, emotions and resources. As a single, please don't force yourself into a relationship that isn't working. That's unwise. That's unhealthy. Please save yourself from some unnecessary stress and traumas.
A healthy relationship is where mutuality is believed in, integrated and demonstrated to the core. Please don't love someone who doesn't love you as much as you do. A healthy relationship isn't a "one- person" affair. It's the responsibility of both lovers. Yes, both lovers. Did you hear that?
Dear singles, you can't continue to beg for love or force yourself on someone who has no iota of love for you, who disrespects and maltreats you, who takes your love for granted and plays with your heart and emotions all the time.
Dear singles, you can't continue to date and love someone whose heart is with someone else, who double-dates or cheats on you, who is a bloody liar, who is a chronic lusty individual, who is laziness personified, who has no dreams, vision or ambitions for their lives, etc. You just can't continue in a relationship that is headed nowhere after many years, an abusive and traumatizing relationship. You just can't continue that way, Bros. You just can't continue that way, Sis. Wake up from your dreams and be wise. You can ask me Aynaijangblog CEO my past experiences in the name of loving someone who doesn't appreciate my kind gestures.IT WAS AWFUL!!
Aren't you sick and tired of being emotionally, financially and sexually exploited? Aren't you sick and tired of keeping your long dated love affair secret all the time and away from everybody glare after so many years together already? Aren't you sick and tired of asking them when will they want to settle down with you in marriage as a spouse? Aren't you sick and tired to be losing your sleep and peace over someone who has refused to commit themselves to you with all their heart? Aren't you sick and tired of seeing your lover always making suspicious moves whenever a certain caller calls their phone? Aren't you sick and tired of reading heartbreaking phone and WhatsApp text messages?
Dear singles, if you're in a relationship that isn't working, please pull out of it. I know that you're truly in love with that your "special one", but true love is mutually beneficial to both lovers. You can't continue to be used and abused all in the name of love. True love is dignifiable and honourable.
Dear singles, I want you to break free from the illusions and fantasies you're calling love. If they don't love you, they don't love you. If they don't want you, they don't want you. Period. No amount of sex, money, gifts or tears can keep a person who doesn't love you at all. Love is provable. I encourage you to review or reassess your relationship situation with your boyfriend/girlfriend or fiancé/fiancée. Because should you marry wrongly there is no going back as God frowns totally at divorce. It's better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage. Should there be need to pull out and start all over but with the right person and the right way, please go ahead and do it as it's not too late yet. Many thanks for reading, commenting, and sharing.
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