Nobody wants to approach me because I am the 'Oga', can I still find a husband?— Single Lady Laments


I am badly in need of a serious relationship because I'm no more
getting any younger and I don't know why many do not want to approach me to date me.

One of the reasons why I think many do not want to date me or want to open up to me that they will like to have a relationship with me is probably because I'm the boss of all my staffs.

They all do the 'Oga' 'Oga' thing all the time even though I've told them many times without number that they can call me by my name.
The too much respect they're giving me is causing me more harm than do me any good.

I'm going to be 39 in the next 2 years and the hope of finding a husband is getting bleak every day.
I don't know what to do. Many are spreading different rumours as to why no man is coming for me and I want all that to end.
I'm fine too now, it is not as of I'm that ugly. Even people that are not as attractive as I am are getting married every weekend.
Please advise me on what to do before I clock 40 and menopause starts setting in.
It won't be good for me to now become suicidal because of this marriage thing.
Different people have given me different advice in the past and I have applied all they advised me to do but I'm still where I am.
And currently, I'm beginning to ask if I will still be able to find a husband.
Please help me, guys!
I will read all comments.

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